Thursday, November 28, 2013

Dankende ~ Giving Thanks in Flemish


Okay, so truth be known, Thanksgiving is one of those days in the year that is really hard to celebrate if you live outside of the US (or Canada too, though they celebrate their Thanksgiving in October).  All the things that are important for the day ~ turkey, stuffing, cranberries, pumpkin pie or some other variation, green bean casserole, Macy’s parade, American football ~ really don’t have much to do with why the day is celebrated and set apart.

It was President Abraham Lincoln who set the 4th Thursday of November apart as a national observance of giving thanks.  Here in my world in Belgium, life will go on as normal ~ though we are canceling our women’s Bible study for the morning but it has nothing to do with Thanksgiving (too many people were missing out today and we’re finishing an 8 week course on when God’s people pray….and we want to finish well!)  Since it’s Thursday, I will hang out with our group of ladies at the local refugee center.  And, you guessed it, our theme for the day:  Thanksgiving!  It’ll be a chance to introduce the ladies to American Thanksgiving (and yes, I cooked down a pumpkin and made pumpkin puree in order to make pumpkin muffins, 2 different recipes, yummy!)  But more importantly, we’ll take a few moments to reflect on giving thanks.  It’s not just the one who has permission to stay in Belgium that needs to give thanks.  Each one of us, no matter what our life situation is like in this day, needs to give thanks.

I love the idea that President Lincoln set apart this day for giving thanks.  Set apart:  it’s the simplest definition of the word “holy”.  What could be more holy than taking time and giving thanks for all the good there is in life?  Our craft project with the women today is decorating a glass jar with beautiful paper and then taking the opportunity each day to write on a slip of paper a note of thanks.  Even in the midst of the immigration/asylum seeking process, there is much to be thankful for.  My prayer is that the women will understand how important it is to say “thank you”, “merci”, dank u wel” and “vielen dank” in any of the official (and unofficial!) languages of this land where we will celebrate Thanksgiving today.

So, bring on the kalkoen (turkey).  The pompoen tart (pumpkin pie) is already baked, the aardappelen (potatoes) will be roasted with herbs in the oven and the veenbessen (cranberry) sauce is a new recipe this year…..initial taste tests scored good results!  And may there be a Thanksgiving celebrated in your life every day of the year, not just that one Thursday in November.  We have so much to be thankful for ~ every moment that your heart beats and your lungs cause you to breathe in air and you don’t even have to think about it is cause for giving thanks.

Jar of thanks ~ not only was the project fun, and the food yummy, but great conversations around what we have to be thankful for ~ it made the day seem less lonely being so far from family and friends back in the US.

Saturday, November 9, 2013

3 countries, 2 Swansons, 1 anniversary celebration

Steve and I were married on November 6, 2004 at my home church, Edgebrook Covenant in Chicago, IL.  When all the dust settled down after the wedding (and the celebration the following week in Minneapolis, MN and the celebration in Bangui, Central African Republic among my Central African and missionary friends), we decided that this was such a fun adventure, we'll be newlyweds for life! Celebrating the newness of our marriage, our desire to serve each other and our God, is something that gives us lots of energy and life as we embrace our silver hairs.  

A friend back in the US gave us a great recommendation for our marriage: keep an anniversary journal.  Each year, as we celebrate our anniversary, we take a few moments and reflect on what has happened in the past year ~ the good and the bad (and sometimes ugly!) memories of that year.  We challenge one another to continue on in love and service.  It's been an incredible part of our marriage journey to relive each of our 9 years.  And we have so much to look forward to in the future as we continue to commit to this precious gift from God.

We managed to get away for a couple of days, and would like to share some of the sights of our time away.  I'm leaving it up to you to guess which countries are the 3 represented in the pictures (hint: you can tell by the flags, if you know your flags or have an idea where in the world we call home!)

Ready...set...guess which countries we're in?

Getting ready to hike before it rains!

And the 3 countries are...?

I will follow you wherever you go...

Happy camper!

That's me up front, checking out a house to buy...but I'm thinking too many window treatments!

I wonder how many places there are in the world where 2 people can kiss and be in 3 different countries at the same time?